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You don't need to be the expert. You need to ask like one.

Maarten van der LeeFractional Head of Sales · 5 min read

I know very little about industrial robots, and yet I have had some of my best conversations with the companies that buy them.

That surprises a lot of salespeople, especially those who believe credibility comes from knowing the technology better than the customer does. In technical markets that is a race you will almost always lose, because the engineer across the table has spent ten years on the subject and you have spent a weekend.

What works better, in my experience, is much simpler. Your job is to ask the questions that help buyers see their own situation more clearly, and to bring in the right expert when the conversation needs more depth than you can offer.

Think of a good family doctor. They don't perform heart surgery themselves, and nobody would want them to. What they do is ask the right questions, work out what is really going on and know exactly which specialist to send you to. Nobody leaves their doctor's office thinking less of them for not being a cardiologist; we trust them precisely because they know where their own knowledge ends. That is the role a good salesperson plays in a technical sale.

Ask about the business, not the machine

When I sit down with a manufacturer that is looking at automation, I don't try to talk about motion control or payloads. I ask what the robots will do for their business. Why are they automating now? What happens to their customers when a line stops for a day? How fast do they need to grow next year, and what does their team spend time on that a partner could take off their hands, such as maintenance?

None of those questions require technical depth, yet all of them get to what actually decides a deal, which is risk, growth, time and focus. They also tend to surface things the buyer has never said out loud. A buyer who hears himself say "if that line goes down for a week, we lose our biggest customer" has just told you, and himself, what the project is really about.

Technical buyers have plenty of people who can talk technology with them. What they rarely get is someone who connects that technology to the business case they will have to defend in front of their own management.

Two people hear more than one

Sooner or later the conversation turns technical, which is a good sign because it means the buyer is engaged. It is also the moment to bring in someone who can go deep, such as a specialist, an architect or a delivery lead.

A lot of salespeople resist this, because it feels like admitting they are not enough, or because they worry the expert will go off-script. I had to get over that myself, and I'm glad I did. A good expert changes the conversation: the buyer's engineers relax because they are finally talking to a peer, and questions get real answers instead of "let me check and get back to you."

Anyone who has brought a partner or a friend along to an important medical appointment knows the other benefit. While the doctor explains the diagnosis, one of you listens to the words and the other notices the hesitation before the answer about recovery time. A sales meeting works the same way. While the expert answers the technical question, you are free to watch the room and notice who nods, who frowns and who goes quiet when cost comes up.

The expert hears the technical question, and you hear the political one.

One warning, though: brief your expert beforehand. Once, I was in a meeting that went south because the prep wasn't good enough and this could have been easily avoided. Tell them who will be in the room, what you have learned so far and what you need from the meeting, because an unprepared expert can answer every question perfectly and still move nothing forward.

Guide the buyer, don't push

What matters most is how the process feels from the buyer's side. They should feel guided in a logical direction, with something always moving forward, but they should never feel pushed. The choice stays with them, and your contribution is to make it a better-informed one. Often the most valuable thing you do is help them put their need into words, so they can explain it to the people who have to sign off.

AI makes the preparation for all of this easier. Before a meeting you can ask an AI assistant to explain a market, a supply chain or a technical term in plain language, so you don't walk in lost. Use it, but don't confuse a good briefing with expertise. It is there to help you ask better questions, not to help you pretend you have all the answers.

What's a question you once asked a buyer that made them stop and think, and why do you think it landed?

Details changed to protect the people and organizations involved.

Maarten van der Lee

Maarten van der Lee

Fractional Head of Sales for B2B companies. Hoboken, NJ / New York.